Did you experience the major energy shift on Good Friday – April 6?

Posted on May 1, 2012 by Wendy Kay

On Good Friday of this year, there was a major energy changed and many of you may have felt it or suffer the effects of it. Although this energy is extremely positive, your physical body may not be used to it and would have gone through a period of adjustment.

The period of adjustment would have been experienced for several days after that time – perhaps even as long as a few weeks. It would depend on your particular energy and how it handled the energy.

The adjustment could have made you feel very tired and for some, it could be felt as pain. You may also have felt very stuffed up – like you were getting a cold. Depending on how sensitive you are, you may also have felt the emotional effects of the energy. The emotional effect seemed to be a “knowing” that something positive was happening or that something positive was coming. It may have been associated with a feeling of excitement.

For those of you who are able, you may have been given messages from those in Spirit relating to this energy shift.

I happened to be lying down when the shift took place. I closed my eyes and I saw all of these tiny bubbles floating away. I had never seen that before. It lasted for a few seconds and it was quite fascinating to watch. It was as though the old energy was leaving for good – the shedding of the old energy.

I don’t know how many people felt the effects but I would be interested to know if you were one of them… So if you felt the effects of the energy shift on Good Friday, please leave a comment and share your experience.

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March 24 – Don’t Believe Someone Will Come Back Into Your Life after 30 years? Read the Proof…

Posted on March 24, 2012 by Wendy Kay

I do a lot of readings and it’s not unusual for a person to be told that someone will come back into one’s life at some point down the road. People find this very hard to believe especially when it involves a romantic partner. However, when something is “meant to be”, the Spirit Guides will ensure that it happens and I am living proof of that happening…

When I was in University, I became involved with a guy and we had a relationship – a very destructive relationship (an on and off affair that lasted several years). I was young and had very, very low self-esteem and he was just being him. I gave everything that I had to give and in return, I received a little attention from him – attention that I desperately needed. The experience caused me extreme emotional pain that influenced me in many ways for years to come.

I suffered for years after he ended the relationship. There were years of emotional pain and physical pain (I ended up with an ulcer). Then a time period of anger and finally, a time when I hated him.

As I started to love myself and my self-esteem increased, I saw him for what he was and realized just how much he used me and how much I allowed myself to be used. I realized that he didn’t have any respect for me or for my feelings. It was at that point that the anger towards him and hate for him manifested.

At that time, I also realized that I had allowed it all to happen. I could have stopped the relationship at any time but that low self-esteem kept me in a place self-hate. Over the years, I ran into him a few times and had deep emotional reactions to seeing him which actually showed me how I was progressing in terms of dealing with the fallout.

Once I realized what he was truly like as a person and once I learned to love myself and increase my self-esteem, I was able to move forward on my path in a different way. I took full responsibility for allowing what happened to happen. He was not responsible in any way – he was just being him. The bottom line was that I allowed him to treat me that way that he did.

A few months ago, my sister and I were planning one of her Aura Drawing specials and were discussing the bonds that exist between people. We often do “practice runs” so we can see what the end result of the special will be for different scenarios. I asked about a bond between me and several different people so we could compare results. In one of the scenarios, a bond didn’t even show between me and the other person which told me that our interactions together were complete. I expected the same result for the bond between me and this guy but was a little disturbed when she told me that there was a bond between us. It was not a very big bond and it was dark in colour – but it did exist.

I don’t even know why I asked about this guy – so much time had already passed and I assumed I would never see or hear from him again. I asked my Spirit Guides why there was still a bond and was told not to worry about it so I let it drop.

The other day the phone rang and you guessed it…it was him. He called me 30 years after he dumped me to “see how I was”. I have to admit I was not all that pleasant on the phone because to be honest, I didn’t understand why he was contacting me – nor did he. After a few minutes of a very awkward conversation, I decided to meet with him for a coffee the next day. Why did I do this? Well, I know that in our minds we may think we have resolved an issue but when put in the situation we might react quite differently. I wanted to test myself – to see if I had any feelings for this guy even after 30 years. Would I feel emotional pain? Anger? Hate? And I do have to admit that hearing from him did have an emotional response – I threw up after the phone call (I like to think that was final old energy leaving my body).

I knew we still had a bond and I needed to confront the issue for my own peace of mind. I really wanted to make sure it was resolved.

We did meet the next day for a coffee and yes, it was awkward and weird. I did ask him why he contacted me. He told me that he found an old card I had sent him all those years ago and he started thinking about me. He said that he had thought about me on and off over the years (as we all do with old relationships). Once he found the card, I kept coming back into his thoughts and as he described it…”he felt compelled to contact me”. (That would be the influence of the Spirit Guides making something happen.) He had to do some research to track me down but he did manage to do so.

I was very nervous about meeting him but was pleasantly surprised when I discovered I had absolutely no feelings of pain, anger or hate towards him. Aside from the awkwardness of “our negative past”, it was like two old friends getting together for a catch-up.

During our conversation, I brought up some of the ways that he treated me that were cruel and that had created a great deal of pain for me. He never disputed them. He totally agreed that he had been quite horrible but he never apologized for treating me the way he did. That surprised me and it told me a lot about his character or lack of character…for all that he had gone through in life (and he had suffered quite a bit in his life), he hadn’t really changed.

We ended on what I would call a positive note…we hugged and opened the doors to further communication. I walked away feeling quite good. Will I contact him again? I doubt it. The fact that he didn’t apologize for the way he treated me told me that he hadn’t really changed and probably didn’t really recognize his actions as an unacceptable way to treat others.  Given the chance, he would probably treat me with the same lack of respect or consideration for my feelings – even as a friend. That saddened me. Would I respond if he contacted me again? Yes…but I would be very careful.

I had hoped that after that encounter, the bond between us would be gone or at least more colourful but when I asked my sister about it, she told me that is was still there but now it was actively moving in a wave-like motion. I also asked my Guides if I would see him again and was told “yes” but I can’t imagine that happening however, I never imagined that after 30 years he would contact me again and I was wrong about that…

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Feb. 23 – Getting the Right Message from Spirit

Posted on February 23, 2012 by Wendy Kay

When you are walking the path of psychic development and are communicating with Spirit, you can get to the point where you wonder if what you are being told is just what you “want” to hear as opposed to what you “need” to hear.

In other words, you begin to think that the Spirit Guides are just telling you what you “think you have figured out” as opposed to what is actually going to happen. These types of doubts can affect your communication with those in Spirit and your state of mind.

I am given so many messages from Spirit that it does get to the point where I wonder if what I am being told over and over and over again is just what I have grown to believe as opposed to what Spirit is actually telling me.

So how can the Spirit Guides make sure that you get a message to give you confirmation that your thoughts and beliefs are NOT the influence and that you are being told exactly what you need to hear?
The message comes from somewhere that you do not expect it to come from – at a time when you are not thinking about the message.

In my case, the Spirit Guides will give me a reading that is meant for myself when I am doing a reading for a client. Sometimes I realize when this is being done because the energy feels different and if I don’t pick up on it, the client usually complains because the reading doesn’t make sense to them at all.

This happened to me recently. It’s upsetting for me because the client isn’t happy with his or her reading and doing the reading itself can be difficult. I know that something is wrong when I am doing the reading because the energy feels so strange.

However, on the plus side it manages to give me confirmation of what I’ve been told without my influence so there can be no doubts on my part.

The last time this occurred, I knew something wasn’t right with the reading when I was doing it but didn’t catch on until the reading was finished and had tuned into my Spirit Guides to try to figure out what went wrong.

The moral of the story…If there is something that your Spirit Guides Want you to know or understand, they will make sure that they get the message to you in a way that can leave no doubts.

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Jan. 1 – Will the world end in 2012?

Posted on January 1, 2012 by Wendy Kay

I have to say that I am soooooo glad that the 2011 is over. It is one of those years I want to close the door on and never see again. Granted, most of my years have been like that but closing the door on this one felt a bit different from past years. Perhaps it’s because on another level I know 2012 is going to bring changes and I want them to happen.  I can’t see it being that 2011 was a crummy year because I’ve actually gone through years that were way worse in terms of what I went through and events that happened. I’ll stick to 2012 will bring some great changes and I want to see them manifest.

The only problem is that many people are saying that 2012 is the year that the world will end…that predictions from Nostradamus and the end of the Mayan calendar signify the world will end.  This will surely breed a great deal of fear energy which is something we could do without.

Personally, I believe what was predicted what the energy settling and the world will end as we know it because the new energy will create a new world. That’s a good thing. I don’t know what that will bring with it in terms of worldwide events but I’m hanging onto “it’s a good thing” and not something to fear. I also believe that is why it is so important for you to make that personal connection with those in Spirit (if you haven’t yet) so that you can communicate with your Spirit Guides directly.

I know my mission seems to be to show others how to connect with those in Spirit and it fits in with everything I have been told by my Guides. I guess time will tell!

What are your thoughts on this world ending thing? Do you believe the world will end in 2012? What do you think the prediction meant?

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Dec. 8th – Is this your final life?

Posted on December 8, 2011 by Wendy Kay

One of the questions that people often ask is, “Is this my last lifetime?”.  In other words, they want to know if they have progressed enough so that they no longer have to reincarnate into physical. Most people don’t want to come back – I know I don’t. However, the truth of the matter is that most of us (if not all of us) will be coming back.

Today I was thinking about it again and came up with what I can only term “my conclusion” on the matter. So my final answer to, “Will I have to come back again?” is….“Who cares?”

That’s right. Why waste even a moment of time and energy contemplating this question when the answer doesn’t really matter. If you have to come back, you will be coming back and you won’t remember that you even asked the question in the first place.

Perhaps in my last life I asked the same question. Maybe I was told that I was coming back or maybe I was told that I wasn’t coming back…the answer is irrelevant. I’m back. I’m here and I don’t remember if I asked if I would have to come back.

Life goes on. I deal with what is in front of me and I try to live the very best I can which is quite difficult at times. Like everyone, the majority of days I experience are okay, some days are pure hell and then there are those few days that are really quite pleasant. There were quite a few times during my life where the majority of days I experienced were pure hell (and that did go on for years)…but I am still here and things did change but I digress…

Now, believing that I am not coming back may make the challenges in this life easier – after all, if I can just get through the current challenge, I can be content with the knowledge that I never have to come back into physical again. So I suppose that belief can make life a bit easier. But then again, how egotistical would it be to think that my knowledge is enough to give me that precious gift?

Believing that I have to come back again, does seem to put a damper on things. Sometimes, it even gives me that “what’s the point” attitude because I can just come back and do it all again.

So, I think I will just stick to “who cares” attitude and just do the best I can. If it happens, I won’t remember or know the difference and I’ll basically be in the same boat I’m in now but hopefully with different life experiences and not repeating the unpleasant lessons of this lifetime.

So please share with me…how do you handle the concept of coming back again. Do you think you are coming back again or do you even think about it at all?

 

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Nov. 21 – Message is finally complete 20 years later!

Posted on November 21, 2011 by Wendy Kay

I’ve been working on the online video courses (which are going online today or tomorrow) and I decided to do a sample visualization for one of the sections. In this visualization I feel myself standing in the desert. It is hot and sunny. I can see miles and miles of sand everywhere. I can feel the sand between my toes.

I look ahead and I can see there is man standing with a camel. The man is not totally clear but I can sense that he is dressed all in white and the camel is wearing a saddle. I start to walk towards them. It is difficult to walk on the sand as I sink a bit with each step. I finally get up to them and I ask why they are here.

The man replies that the camel is mine to use now. I no longer have to walk in the desert. He says that I have been walking in the desert for 40 days and 40 nights and now it is over. He tells me that I can now climb on the camel and it will take me the rest of the way. The hard part is over.

I thought back about 20 years ago when I first started teaching others to meditate (in my store). One of the messages was about 40 days and 40 nights passing. At that time, I knew the message was important and I even took out a calendar and counted out 40 days to see where that would bring me. I assumed the reference meant that times would be challenging for me in the same way it was a challenge in the Bible. At the end of the 40 days, nothing significant had happened so I just forgot about it.

Now, over 20 years later, the message has come up again and I have finally been told it is done I had no idea that it would be referring to my path of searching and understanding – a path that has been over 20 years in the making. A path that has been challenging to say the least. Wow. I’m so glad it’s over.

So remember, if you are given a message by your Guides – write it down. It may not be what you think it means and it may not happen in the time you believe but there is significance to it. Let’s just hope you don’t have to wait 20 years to find out what it is!

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Nov. 9 – If you are Sensitive you NEED to read this!

Posted on November 9, 2011 by Wendy Kay

I can’t emphasize this enough…if you think you are a sensitive and that you easily pick up other people’s feelings or emotions you MUST monitor how you feel ALL the time.

Yesterday morning I was soooooo depressed. The feeling was getting worse and worse as the hours passed by and it was weighing me down heavily. It felt like my chest was being crushed and and my whole body was being pulled down. It was quite horrible.  Now, I do have a reason for feeling that way but it should not have been as bad as it was so as I was driving over to the store to do a bit of shopping, I started saying out loud and repeatedly…

“If these are not my feelings, take them away!”

I repeated this all the way to the store over and over and over again. I then went into the store to do what I needed to do.

When I got back out to the car, I noticed that the feelings were not as intense. Yes, they were still there but they were not “killing me”. They were more of a sadness or slight feeling of depression – normal or expected for what I was going through. The extreme heaviness was gone and I was able to focus on my day.

So I was picking up the feelings from another person. I now knew what the other person was feeling (because of how I felt) and it gave me some understanding of my situation.

So on one hand, it is beneficial to receive this type of information IF you can realize when it is NOT your own feelings and it doesn’t interfere with your own life.

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